Thanksgiving Kindness

Several years ago my mother was in the hospital nearing the end of a courageous battle with cancer.  She would not be coming home again.  The doctor had her on morphine and thankfully she was not in any pain. Except for a few special moments, she did not appear to be aware of our presence.  It was a long and painful week and my brothers and I spent our time sitting by her bedside, holding her hand and making sure she was never alone. It is a vigil no one wants to keep and the sadness ran deep.

Sometimes people in your life become extra special people when their kindness in times of distress gives new meaning to the act of loving and caring for others.  Thanksgiving had arrived that same week and of course we could not give any thought to a holiday much less celebrating with a meal.  We had barely eaten at all during the last several days. On Thanksgiving day, my sister-in-law's parents prepared one of the most beautiful Thanksgiving dinners we have ever had.  It was for all of us, my brothers, my children, my husband and me.  Their house and table were filled with a meal made completely from scratch right down to the apple pies.  A fire was burning bright and warm for us.  Their best silver was shined and polished, candles were lit, and they opened their arms and hearts to us who were grieving deeply. I felt a moment of peace wash over me in their home. Had it not been for them, we would not have eaten that Thanksgiving much less eaten such a beautiful meal complete with love and friendship.

I will always be grateful for their kindness and am happy to say that they remain a special part of our lives.-Linda, NJ